Saturday, August 1, 2009
♥ Jealousy & Hatred
As humans, we are envious of those who are better than us in certain ways or have things that we want. We get jealous especially when it comes to relationships. If this jealousy stays with you for too long, it can turn into hatred!
I have to admit that I’m the kind if person that gets jealous at a click. Mainly because I am quite selfish but sometimes it’s because I tend to think too much in the negative direction. Now if you know me well enough you’d know exactly what I’m trying to tell you. I don’t get all irritated when Chao talks to girls that I know & have spoken to but if it’s someone I don’t really know, then I will get very annoyed (this applies especially to all the girls he used to have a crush on). It seems to me that I have a grudge against every girl he’s ever liked which means ALL of the Asian chicks in his grade (No, he is not racist. It’s just his taste). Of course, Chao had tried to convince me countless times that they’re only friends. But I can’t help it when it’s part of my emotions. It’s just something that comes naturally when you have a person who you love and cherish. You get jealous because you are afraid. You’re afraid of losing your love to another person who appears to be better quality than you in both looks and personalities.
Sometimes, jealousy can turn into hatred. So far I have managed myself well enough not to allow my little grudge become a big hate. We all know what hatred can lead to; bitching, violent and war (and I’m not at all interested in a cat fight). When we hate someone, we’re the only one that suffers. Unless that person hates you back, they are unaffected by your revulsion against them. On the other hand, you gain nothing out of this but misery and sometimes it can just ruin your day when you see that person talking to your friends. I used to hate someone, that person just irritates me so much that every time I see her my mood just goes bad. It wasn’t until that person left the school that I came to realise there was no point of me hating her. I realise I was just trying to conform with the rest of class who had disliked her one way or the other. I really don’t have a reason to hate her as long as she doesn’t bother me!
The point is, yes we do get jealous and yes the jealousy does occasionally become hates. After all, we’re only humans and these things just come naturally. But just keep in mind it’s no where near beneficial for you to hate another person, you’re the only one that suffers. Set that hatred free, and trust me, you’ll be free too!
YuMi
I have to admit that I’m the kind if person that gets jealous at a click. Mainly because I am quite selfish but sometimes it’s because I tend to think too much in the negative direction. Now if you know me well enough you’d know exactly what I’m trying to tell you. I don’t get all irritated when Chao talks to girls that I know & have spoken to but if it’s someone I don’t really know, then I will get very annoyed (this applies especially to all the girls he used to have a crush on). It seems to me that I have a grudge against every girl he’s ever liked which means ALL of the Asian chicks in his grade (No, he is not racist. It’s just his taste). Of course, Chao had tried to convince me countless times that they’re only friends. But I can’t help it when it’s part of my emotions. It’s just something that comes naturally when you have a person who you love and cherish. You get jealous because you are afraid. You’re afraid of losing your love to another person who appears to be better quality than you in both looks and personalities.
Sometimes, jealousy can turn into hatred. So far I have managed myself well enough not to allow my little grudge become a big hate. We all know what hatred can lead to; bitching, violent and war (and I’m not at all interested in a cat fight). When we hate someone, we’re the only one that suffers. Unless that person hates you back, they are unaffected by your revulsion against them. On the other hand, you gain nothing out of this but misery and sometimes it can just ruin your day when you see that person talking to your friends. I used to hate someone, that person just irritates me so much that every time I see her my mood just goes bad. It wasn’t until that person left the school that I came to realise there was no point of me hating her. I realise I was just trying to conform with the rest of class who had disliked her one way or the other. I really don’t have a reason to hate her as long as she doesn’t bother me!
The point is, yes we do get jealous and yes the jealousy does occasionally become hates. After all, we’re only humans and these things just come naturally. But just keep in mind it’s no where near beneficial for you to hate another person, you’re the only one that suffers. Set that hatred free, and trust me, you’ll be free too!
YuMi
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