Sunday, July 19, 2009
♥ Let go, move on... give up?
There’s big difference between creatures that can think and creatures that can’t (and no, the difference if not that one is dumber than the other). If you are a creature that can’t think deeply, then you have nothing to worry about. You’d be more carefree and can do anything without any regret. On the other hand, if you are the thinking-creature, then life is much harder. You have to make decisions, and while making that decision you’ve got to consider many different things. Every new day you have to choose, big and small matters. I think one of the hardest decision that us as humans have to make is that we must decide whether it’s time to let go certain things that we cherish and to move on. But me… I remained in the same spot, never let go, never move on… and never give up (if you know what I’m talking about!)
Is it bad? Is it wrong? People that give you advices kept telling you that you have to learn to let go, for some reason (maybe my gut-feeling) I was the stubborn one. Now to think about it, if I’d let go in the first place, I doubt I would be able to be anywhere as happy as I am now. The possibility is dating another guy that I don’t give a sh*t about. If I’d let go, sooner or later I’ll know I’ve made a mistake… a big mistake. I can turn around, look back and realise what a big idiot I am. Even though I knew clear as glass in my mind that it’s only the matter of time until I have to move on to something else, I didn’t. I didn’t because I don’t want to. I didn’t want to give up someone that made me feel loved and special. I refuse to forget about the person who shares the happiest moment of my life with me. And because I didn’t let go and move on, things became better… much better. The thing is, it will hurt and you will suffer. But if you keep fighting, if you never back down, you will get what you fight for and the even better than you have expected. The more you fight, the better you deserve.
You let go because you want to, not because you have to. Because it can only cause yourself pain and misery. Keep one fighting, every moment. You can only win when you don’t give up; it may seem hopeless but trust me, believe in yourself and the victory shall be yours.
YuMi
Is it bad? Is it wrong? People that give you advices kept telling you that you have to learn to let go, for some reason (maybe my gut-feeling) I was the stubborn one. Now to think about it, if I’d let go in the first place, I doubt I would be able to be anywhere as happy as I am now. The possibility is dating another guy that I don’t give a sh*t about. If I’d let go, sooner or later I’ll know I’ve made a mistake… a big mistake. I can turn around, look back and realise what a big idiot I am. Even though I knew clear as glass in my mind that it’s only the matter of time until I have to move on to something else, I didn’t. I didn’t because I don’t want to. I didn’t want to give up someone that made me feel loved and special. I refuse to forget about the person who shares the happiest moment of my life with me. And because I didn’t let go and move on, things became better… much better. The thing is, it will hurt and you will suffer. But if you keep fighting, if you never back down, you will get what you fight for and the even better than you have expected. The more you fight, the better you deserve.
You let go because you want to, not because you have to. Because it can only cause yourself pain and misery. Keep one fighting, every moment. You can only win when you don’t give up; it may seem hopeless but trust me, believe in yourself and the victory shall be yours.
YuMi
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